Watch Intro Video

Discover our model for understanding difficult behaviour

and confidently apply our strategies to reclaim calm - no more arguments or uncertainty!

Your Clinical Psychologists - Dr Louisa Stokou & Dr Andrea Shortland

Our programmes are designed and facilitated by our highly experienced Clinical Psychologists Chartered by the British Psychological Society and registered with the HCPC

Clinical Psychologist

Louisa Stokou

Dr Louisa Stokou has worked extensively with children, teenagers and parents in the NHS, Social Care, private practice and for the Family Courts. Louisa brings a high level of expertise to her parenting work. She is trained in attachment-based parenting interventions and parenting programmes including Video Interaction Guidance (VIG), Theraplay, The Incredible Years and mentalisation-based family interventions. Louisa's compassionate, playful and friendly but straightforward approach to her work quickly puts children and parents at ease.

Clinical Psychologist

Andrea Shortland

Dr Andrea Shortland is a Consultant Clinical Psychologist chartered with the British Psychological Society and registered with the Health & Care Professions Council. Andrea has worked with children and families for over 20 years and also supervises and trains other psychologists and therapists. She has worked with the media and was an onscreen psychologist for 'WifeSwap the Aftermath'.

Andrea is known for her innovative thinking and compassionate, friendly and fun approach to therapy. Andrea specialises in the assessment and treatment of trauma, anxiety and attachment difficulties in children, adults and families. She combines latest approaches such as ACT and Compassion Focused Therapy with EMDR, CBT, attachment therapies and systemic approaches.

A self-paced masterclass (series of mini-presentations) for parents, carers and teachers

This is for you if you have ever:

  • Felt helpless to stop your child's difficult behaviours

  • Got stuck in good-cop-bad-cop with your partner or teacher

  • Thought: I sound exactly like my mother/father

  • Found yourself in groundhog day, repeating the same battles over and over again

  • Felt fed up with nagging and shouting all the time

  • Worried you are making a problem worse


What people who have taken Crack the Code have to say

5 star rating

Inspiring, enlightening, challenging.

Anoushka Giltsoff

I did enjoy this course. I felt you were really good at making me, the parent feel your empathy and understanding. You made me feel heard. An important lear...

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I did enjoy this course. I felt you were really good at making me, the parent feel your empathy and understanding. You made me feel heard. An important learning experience!

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4 star rating


Samantha Essex

It was very easy to follow. Not preachy

It was very easy to follow. Not preachy

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Bonus material

We want to make sure you have all you need to crack the code for years to come

  • Manual

    Download our Crack the Code manual and workbook. This contains our model and hints and tips to ensure you have what you need to manage difficult behaviour for years to come.

  • Tools and strategies

    You will learn about practical strategies that you can take away and use straight away with your child.

Crack the Code: Managing difficult child behaviour

We are all about bringing the latest psychological ideas and treatments to families in a way that is engaging, accessible and affordable. We want everyday families to be able to easily access high quality psychological support to prevent things becoming more serious. Our programme is:

  • Based on research from developmental child psychology, neuropsychology and latest evidenced-based therapeutic interventions

  • Gives you the knowledge and understanding you need to manage difficult behaviours

  • Gives you the tools and strategies to manage difficult behaviours

  • Fun and engaging - we like to keep a little humour even when discussing serious problems

  • Cost effective, giving you the help when you need it

  • Works in partnership with your expertise and skills as a parent


  • What age should my child be for this masterclass to be helpful?

    Any age really from toddler upwards. We will highlight where you should adapt a strategy or idea according to child developmental stage. Please note, this a parent course and not suitable for children to complete.

  • Is this class live?

    No. It is pre-recorded from a previous live masterclass. We have broken that class into smaller mini-presentations to make it easier to digest.

  • What type of difficult behaviours does the masterclass address?

    Anything and everything; our framework can be applied to pretty much any difficult behaviour. Common behaviours include: hitting out or throwing things; bedtime struggles; being cheeky or disrespectful; refusing to do something; tantrums; and new habits and rituals such as skin picking or doing things in a particular order/manner.

  • Is this therapy?

    Our programmes include topics, explanations/education, strategies and exercises typically used in our psychological therapy sessions. However, they do not provide the individual attention, assessment and support of a personal therapist and therefore cannot be considered therapy.

  • Are there circumstances in which you would not recommend completing this programme?

    Yes, if your concerns are severe or your child is at risk of harm we recommend you seek the advice of your GP and/or a personalised assessment and intervention from a qualified child psychotherapist, psychologist or mental health worker.

  • Could I complete this programme at the same time as my child having therapy?

    Absolutely. We first thought about creating this and our other programmes to help families waiting to start or just beginning psychological therapy.

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